Wedding checklist

Dear future husband,

Seriously, OMGeee budding brides or grooms.

Planning a wedding could get worst if you do not start a proper 

wedding checklist. Percayalah! Checklist sangat IMPORTANT!

Ada yang tak tahu nak mula checklist dengan apa?

Okay, jom kita brainstorm bersama- sama.

Usually, we start doing this checklist after dah bertunang

and the wedding is soon.. atau yang tak nak tunang, nak kahwin je terus

6 bulan dari sekarang. Hahh, itupun bolehhh!

So first of all, 

Mula cari atau buat wedding folder atau binder.

(bahasa senang dia, mulakan buat fail tentang kahwin)

Time dah ada fail ni, masa ini lah korang start cari,

stalk, selak majalah kahwin, pinterest kahwin, blog kahwin.

Kekonon cari inspirasi untuk your upcoming wedding.

Apa fashion kahwin terbaru, veil style apa, baju A cut or mermaid style,

design pelamin terbaru, makanan apa sesuai untuk majlis nanti,

design henna apa yang cantik, bridesmaid sekarang in colour apa.

Cari, print letak dalam folder. Supaya senang kalau nak dapat inspirasi

atau nak jadikan references di masa akan datang.

Work out your budget

(lain orang lain bajetnya, so ukur baju di badan sendiri)

Lepas dah dapat inspirasi, wedding folder dah tebal kamus dewan,

kita bergerak pula ke budget. Ini paling penting dalam satu2 perkahwinan.

Budding brides and grooms kena ingat, majlis kahwin sehari dua je,

hidup berdua di kemudian hari lagi memerlukan duit. So semat dalam jiwa,

kukuhkan perasaan untuk tidak membazir masa majlis kahwin nanti.

Budding brides and grooms, haruslah tahu anggaran duit untuk di gunapakai.

Then, perlu tahu ada tak family yang nak support perbelanjaan

kahwin korang ni and berapa exact value yang family nak contribute untuk 

korang. Bukan sebab nak nampak sengkek, tapi lagi senang if

kita tahu total budget yang akan diguna untuk majlis nanti.

Mulakan listing tetamu

(Siapa yang wajib datang, kang salah list ada yang makan hati)

As soon as korang bertunang, mulalah manusia sejagat akan fikir

siapa agaknya yang korang akan jemput.

" Aku ni rakyat marhaen,dorang nak jemput tak? "

Trust me, memang semua duk tertanya- tanya. So as a good

budding brides and grooms, korang memang dah kira awal2 lagi

siapa tetamu yang patut datang untuk wedding korang. Tapi ingat!

Kalau korang on budget wedding, jangan pergi pandai2 jemput tetamu

satu stadium bola. Naya nantiii..

Jemputan pun berpada- padalah. Kalau nak low cost sangat,

do reduce your guest list.

Upah wedding planner

(senang tak payah pening kepala)

Wedding planner ada yang mahal ada yang murah. Jadi as a budding brides and

grooms yang bertauliah, korang survey dulu wedding planner mana

yang paling berpatutan untuk budget korang. Tapi memang

tak dinafikan, upah wedding planner sangat menyenangkan keadaan.

Semua dari A to Z majlis perkahwinan korang, bagi wedding planner saja yg buat.

tapi a perfect movie like wedding comes with a huge price tag!

Kaachinggg.

to be continued.

Takut nak kahwin!

Dear maya,

or perhaps this time I changed it to

Dear future husband,

Wedding and marriage seems quite interesting and fun.

But you know what?!

The pressure is really ON!

Siapa cakap dia tak tension time nak kahwin, penipu!

Time nak preparation kahwin la masing- masing brides and grooms

duduk pening kepala. Mana nak fikir preparation before kahwin,

preparation masa hari kahwin and preparation after kahwin.

Talk to any budding bride or groom and one word usually resounds: nerves. Ask them how they’re feeling and I’ll guarantee, ‘stressed’, ‘excited’ and ‘nervous’ will pour as much from their verbal response as it will off their entire aura. Each will have their individual anxieties, but research reveals that brides appear to be taking the brunt, reporting an upsurge in panic attacks and breakdowns before – and most worryingly – on the day itself.

Seriously, budding brides and grooms, jangan risau okay. Everything is going to be fine!

BREATHE

Simple thing untuk relax adalah try untuk bernafas.

tarik nafas, hembus, tarik nafas, hembus.

Tenangkan diri. If possible, lari sebentar dari your own wedding anxiety.

Go have some fun with your friends, tengok wayang, lepak.

Relax your own self. Tak salah to get a relax session from your wedding

preparation. Just remember, after this session, you akan 

kembali for your wedding preparation in a clear state of mind.

BELIEVE

Percaya all your hardwork to prepare your wedding akan dibayar

dengan your magical and dream wedding. Salah satu kunci untuk a successful

and happy day including your marriage is confidence. 

Try believe with yourself, believe with your bridesmaid,

believe with your family and most importantly believe with your wedding planner.

Is it a failure is a total jerk?

Dear maya,

I'll try not to be sad but definitely a failure is a total BS.

"Trust me, failing is just a preparation to become a successful you in future"

Most of people think, is karma, what goes around comes around.

But you know what! the journey to be succeed is really 

 bad and fill with nightmares. People just do not respect you when you are

a failure. People just makes fun of you. They think, a failure just

a pleasant jokes for them to be joking around.

Trust me, a failure is a total BS.

Breathless by Better than Ezra

Dear maya,

I found this song, perfectly written and sang. :'(

Breathless by Better Than Ezra

Here you are now
Fresh from your war
Back from the edge of time
And all that you were,
Stripped to the bone
I thought you­d want to know

That when you feel the world is crashing
All around your feet
Come running headlong into my arms
Breathless
I'll never judge you
I can only love you
Come now running headlong
Into my arms
Breathless

Lay down your guns
Too weak to run
Nothing can harm you here
Your precious heart
Broken and scarred
Somehow you made it through
I only ask that you won't go again

When you feel the world is crashing
All around your feet
Come running headlong into my arms
Breathless
I'll never judge you
I can only love you
Come now running headlong
Into my arms
Breathless

So glad to see you smiling
So good to hear your laugh
I think that you've found you even
Missed yourself
I'm only asking this because I think that
Truth be told
Oh, you'll never go again
Again

When you feel the world is crashing
All around your feet
Come running headlong into my arms
Breathless
I'll never judge you
I can only love you
Come now running headlong
Into my arms
Breathless
Breathless

Subjective Beauty

Dear Maya,

Topic today for our conservation is beauty. Most of us love or

frankly speaking very addicted to become a beauty person.

Errr, actually what is beauty means?

Is beauty just a cultural thing? or is there a 'true beauty'? For me, beauty is

a personal issue, or easy speaking, beauty is subjective.

for some people, woman with skinny body, blonde, pink lips is beauty. But

it is not the same with the other opinions. I have my own meaning of beauty.

Beauty for me, being a good and wise woman is more beauty than being 

skinny, model size woman, but less manner. such a bimboo.

And for me, become like less manner woman is ashamed. Not at all 

a compliment to that kind of person :) errr, it not like being rude, but

that just my rough opinion about less manner woman.

Actually, everything in this world has beauty. Does not matter what size are you? 

what color are you? Everybody has their own beauty. But not everyone sees it.

So, do believe in yourself. Just be yourself.

"Allah created everything with proficiency and He created the 

human being in the best  of forms"

last word, no harm. beauty for others is different.

Live with your own beauty meaning :)

Goodbye. btw missing this blog a lot.

Shall I compare thee to a summer days

Assalam dear readers.

Its quite sometimes I don't write anything to this blog.

I am feeling unwell, coughing badly.

so, so long people, keep in touch later :)

Late Introductory

Dear Maya,

As you all readers noticed it, I am not

introducing myself. :) what ashamed.

So today I am going to introduce myself, because I believe

my dear readers, will love to know me.

Okay, so I started with my age. I am 21 years old. a girl.

A full time student in a very well- known university in our country.

Basically done with my biography. Come and scroll down my interests.

I have a lot of interests. :)

I have a craziness towards a camera. 

I love photography, I felt creative by doing it.

and also, I have a dream, about to open a photography

studio, when I'm growing up. I think, all photograph can talk, in 

their own ways. 

I love cats. and more prefer them than a man. because I think

a man is hard to handle, but with cats, they are loving

and cute. No pressure at all. :3 miauoww

Then, I love sketches.

I will write later.. lack of idea

Happy Ending

Dear Maya,

Do you believe in happily ever after?

I used to believe it, but when I am growing older

that sentence always scared me off.

I hate dissapointment. Really hate it. So I am avoiding it.

By avoiding it, actually it makes by day more joyful and exciting, perhaps?

About the matter yesterday, I have been thinking that, I will not follow
my heart, but follow my brain instead. I will take this to the bright side.
I am finishing my study first, then I will think about man.
About a relationship. because I think, it is not a big problem
if I have a relationship or not. Because to wrap it up, at the end
I have my family and my friends. Who will support me, as I am.

And so, done with love.. focus on becoming a good person, a great student.
Happiness is not from a man, perhaps :)
Must move on to the real life, the real world.

"Sometimes being strong means being able to cry, and sometimes moving on means being
strong enough to let go"

A heart

Dear Maya,

So far my life is such a joy.. Nothing to be worried.

But, I have a decent feeling towards a guy lately. This annoying feeling

keep me from doing everything. and more disappointing is, I am no

longer texting or contact that guy. Mr-crush-I-love.

Actually I know him long time ago. We have been to school together.

When I have this strange feeling towards him, I kept a distance,

far far one, to be exact, I don't call, text or even poke him 

at facebook. I don't have a gut to contact him anymore.

I hate this situation, because I love him. I love our friendship and I do

not want to ruins our lovely friendship just because of this strange feeling

I have.. and actually it is a normal, feeling being loved by someone.

You, dear readers, may call me fool, but I am really scared.

I scared, this feeling may ruin the friendship, I cannot imagine, me without him.

miserable. So dear heart, please, keep this feeling away from me.

If my heart cannot keep this feeling away, please make him has the exact

same feeling like me. Last word, I love you, my friend but I scared to

confess it for you.