Takut nak kahwin!

Dear maya,

or perhaps this time I changed it to

Dear future husband,

Wedding and marriage seems quite interesting and fun.

But you know what?!

The pressure is really ON!

Siapa cakap dia tak tension time nak kahwin, penipu!

Time nak preparation kahwin la masing- masing brides and grooms

duduk pening kepala. Mana nak fikir preparation before kahwin,

preparation masa hari kahwin and preparation after kahwin.

Talk to any budding bride or groom and one word usually resounds: nerves. Ask them how they’re feeling and I’ll guarantee, ‘stressed’, ‘excited’ and ‘nervous’ will pour as much from their verbal response as it will off their entire aura. Each will have their individual anxieties, but research reveals that brides appear to be taking the brunt, reporting an upsurge in panic attacks and breakdowns before – and most worryingly – on the day itself.

Seriously, budding brides and grooms, jangan risau okay. Everything is going to be fine!

BREATHE

Simple thing untuk relax adalah try untuk bernafas.

tarik nafas, hembus, tarik nafas, hembus.

Tenangkan diri. If possible, lari sebentar dari your own wedding anxiety.

Go have some fun with your friends, tengok wayang, lepak.

Relax your own self. Tak salah to get a relax session from your wedding

preparation. Just remember, after this session, you akan 

kembali for your wedding preparation in a clear state of mind.

BELIEVE

Percaya all your hardwork to prepare your wedding akan dibayar

dengan your magical and dream wedding. Salah satu kunci untuk a successful

and happy day including your marriage is confidence. 

Try believe with yourself, believe with your bridesmaid,

believe with your family and most importantly believe with your wedding planner.