Wedding checklist

Dear future husband,

Seriously, OMGeee budding brides or grooms.

Planning a wedding could get worst if you do not start a proper 

wedding checklist. Percayalah! Checklist sangat IMPORTANT!

Ada yang tak tahu nak mula checklist dengan apa?

Okay, jom kita brainstorm bersama- sama.

Usually, we start doing this checklist after dah bertunang

and the wedding is soon.. atau yang tak nak tunang, nak kahwin je terus

6 bulan dari sekarang. Hahh, itupun bolehhh!

So first of all, 

Mula cari atau buat wedding folder atau binder.

(bahasa senang dia, mulakan buat fail tentang kahwin)

Time dah ada fail ni, masa ini lah korang start cari,

stalk, selak majalah kahwin, pinterest kahwin, blog kahwin.

Kekonon cari inspirasi untuk your upcoming wedding.

Apa fashion kahwin terbaru, veil style apa, baju A cut or mermaid style,

design pelamin terbaru, makanan apa sesuai untuk majlis nanti,

design henna apa yang cantik, bridesmaid sekarang in colour apa.

Cari, print letak dalam folder. Supaya senang kalau nak dapat inspirasi

atau nak jadikan references di masa akan datang.

Work out your budget

(lain orang lain bajetnya, so ukur baju di badan sendiri)

Lepas dah dapat inspirasi, wedding folder dah tebal kamus dewan,

kita bergerak pula ke budget. Ini paling penting dalam satu2 perkahwinan.

Budding brides and grooms kena ingat, majlis kahwin sehari dua je,

hidup berdua di kemudian hari lagi memerlukan duit. So semat dalam jiwa,

kukuhkan perasaan untuk tidak membazir masa majlis kahwin nanti.

Budding brides and grooms, haruslah tahu anggaran duit untuk di gunapakai.

Then, perlu tahu ada tak family yang nak support perbelanjaan

kahwin korang ni and berapa exact value yang family nak contribute untuk 

korang. Bukan sebab nak nampak sengkek, tapi lagi senang if

kita tahu total budget yang akan diguna untuk majlis nanti.

Mulakan listing tetamu

(Siapa yang wajib datang, kang salah list ada yang makan hati)

As soon as korang bertunang, mulalah manusia sejagat akan fikir

siapa agaknya yang korang akan jemput.

" Aku ni rakyat marhaen,dorang nak jemput tak? "

Trust me, memang semua duk tertanya- tanya. So as a good

budding brides and grooms, korang memang dah kira awal2 lagi

siapa tetamu yang patut datang untuk wedding korang. Tapi ingat!

Kalau korang on budget wedding, jangan pergi pandai2 jemput tetamu

satu stadium bola. Naya nantiii..

Jemputan pun berpada- padalah. Kalau nak low cost sangat,

do reduce your guest list.

Upah wedding planner

(senang tak payah pening kepala)

Wedding planner ada yang mahal ada yang murah. Jadi as a budding brides and

grooms yang bertauliah, korang survey dulu wedding planner mana

yang paling berpatutan untuk budget korang. Tapi memang

tak dinafikan, upah wedding planner sangat menyenangkan keadaan.

Semua dari A to Z majlis perkahwinan korang, bagi wedding planner saja yg buat.

tapi a perfect movie like wedding comes with a huge price tag!

Kaachinggg.

to be continued.

Takut nak kahwin!

Dear maya,

or perhaps this time I changed it to

Dear future husband,

Wedding and marriage seems quite interesting and fun.

But you know what?!

The pressure is really ON!

Siapa cakap dia tak tension time nak kahwin, penipu!

Time nak preparation kahwin la masing- masing brides and grooms

duduk pening kepala. Mana nak fikir preparation before kahwin,

preparation masa hari kahwin and preparation after kahwin.

Talk to any budding bride or groom and one word usually resounds: nerves. Ask them how they’re feeling and I’ll guarantee, ‘stressed’, ‘excited’ and ‘nervous’ will pour as much from their verbal response as it will off their entire aura. Each will have their individual anxieties, but research reveals that brides appear to be taking the brunt, reporting an upsurge in panic attacks and breakdowns before – and most worryingly – on the day itself.

Seriously, budding brides and grooms, jangan risau okay. Everything is going to be fine!

BREATHE

Simple thing untuk relax adalah try untuk bernafas.

tarik nafas, hembus, tarik nafas, hembus.

Tenangkan diri. If possible, lari sebentar dari your own wedding anxiety.

Go have some fun with your friends, tengok wayang, lepak.

Relax your own self. Tak salah to get a relax session from your wedding

preparation. Just remember, after this session, you akan 

kembali for your wedding preparation in a clear state of mind.

BELIEVE

Percaya all your hardwork to prepare your wedding akan dibayar

dengan your magical and dream wedding. Salah satu kunci untuk a successful

and happy day including your marriage is confidence. 

Try believe with yourself, believe with your bridesmaid,

believe with your family and most importantly believe with your wedding planner.

Is it a failure is a total jerk?

Dear maya,

I'll try not to be sad but definitely a failure is a total BS.

"Trust me, failing is just a preparation to become a successful you in future"

Most of people think, is karma, what goes around comes around.

But you know what! the journey to be succeed is really 

 bad and fill with nightmares. People just do not respect you when you are

a failure. People just makes fun of you. They think, a failure just

a pleasant jokes for them to be joking around.

Trust me, a failure is a total BS.